Off subject of Isaac's descendants and DNA but I have to vent.
My dad, Arthur Eugene Carter, Jr, third great grandson of Isaac, passed away on the 11th of March at 11:30 PM. Dad had suffered with Alzheimer's for over eight years and spent the last four in a nursing home. Although it was a blessing for him it didn't make it any easier for those of us who loved him dearly.
The next day, along with my mother and my sons, Don and BR, we made his arrangements.
I woke up very early the next Sunday morning and felt that I wanted to add his memorial at findagrave.com.
Guess what - someone had already added him! I sent a message to the contributor and told her that I was very upset with her. Her answer, "I knew you were a contributor and planned on transferring it to you." Her response to putting it up so soon was classic, "If I hadn't created it, someone else would have."
I guess she broke a lot of bones as a child. Remember when our parents used to ask us, "If your best friend is jumping off of a cliff, will you jump too?"
So I created a memorial for dad. I wrote a nice biography, not the standard obit you find on most. I added photos of him as a child, his army photo and one more recent. I asked findagrave.com to remove the 'troll's' memorial. Instead they removed mine including the biography but added the photos I posted on mine to hers!!!
Dad was easy going, patient, compassionate, funny and great fun to be with. I wish I had inherited more of these traits so I could get over this.
This woman has created over nine thousand memorials at findagrave.com. I guess her numbers are of greater importance to her than the feelings of grieving family members.
Now that I have vented I guess I feel better!
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